(WARNING: please excuse the F Bomb, I felt it necessary for artistic reasons!)
Oh menopause, oh menopause
You’re here at last – woohoo!
And all the things I’ve heard about
I see you’ve brought them too!
Put your feet up, make a brew
I’m told you’re here to stay.
You’re going to change my life I guess,
Well that’s what people say.
I’ve heard that there are lots of things
I’m going to get to meet.
So tell me all about it then,
Hang on I’ll take a seat.
Heated flushes
Itchy skin
Running to the loo.
Temper tantrums
Sleepless nights
Not bad, that’s just a few.
Oh sorry did you say there’s more
Beg pardon do go on.
I can’t help thinking that’s enough;
You surely must be done?
Palpitations
Aches and pains
Fluctuating weight.
Feeling anxious
Stiffening joints
Now let me get this straight.
I have to suffer all of this
Because I am a woman?
That’s surely just a horrid joke
‘Cos most of its not human!
Night time sweating
Weakened bones
Falling out with friends.
Low libido
Memory loss
How long until it ends??
The years may be as long as ten?
Or maybe only five?
But why do I deserve all this?
And how will I survive?
Nagging headaches
Always tired
Dryness down below.
Irritated
Murderous thoughts
Not sure I want to know!
Feeling dizzy
Painful boobs
Drying skin and hair.
Bloated tummy
Thinning nails
I’m starting to despair!
Don’t think I really want to change,
And truly not like this.
It’s good you came; but off you go
I’m giving it a miss.
Muscle tension
Burning tongue
Low and tetchy moods.
I’ve heard enough
It sounds like hell
So basically I’m screwed?!
If women have to cope with this
Then what about the men?
Now tell me all the things THEY get –
NOTHING?! – Say again!!
What’s that you say, there is one thing;
They do it to their grave.
They have to tend their facial hair –
THEY HAVE TO FUCKING SHAVE?!
Haha I love this!!
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Thanks Jad! 🙂
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Oh yes! It does seem unfair doesn’t it? I made it through and there is life after menopause. 😀 I did my best to deal with it through exercise and diet. Hang in there!
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Thanks 🙂 I am trying to exercise…mainly to hold back the tidal wave of lard that seems to be taking up residence on the front of my body lol! I do eat healthily but I refuse to give up wine, gin, cocktails… Thanks for the comment 🙂
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Belly fat doesn’t seem to go away ….. even with exercise. 😦 And I refuse to give up wine! ❤
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NEVER Mary Lou! NEVER! 😂
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I went to a hot springs over the weekend where all the twenty and thirty somethings paraded around in their fabulous bikinis. Oh Lordy if only they knew what is to come. If only I’d believed the meno stories ahd been more prepared.
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Maybe you should have paraded around in a t-shirt saying “You ain’t seen nothing yet!” or “Enjoy that flat stomach while it lasts!” or “Just wait ’til it all goes south!” or simply “Hahahahahaha! (accompanied by a knowing wink)” emblazoned across it lol! 🙂
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Maybe I should have worn a string bikini and given them all a heart attack
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😂😂😂
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Love this! You’ve got everything on here my friend! WHY do we have to endure this torture??? Its just not fair!! Loved it x
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Thanks Liz, appreciate your comment. Glad you liked it 🙂
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This is highly enjoyable 🙂thank you for sharing it!
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Thank you! If you particularly enjoy poetry, I’ve written three more on the blog if you fancy checking them out. And thanks for the follow 😊
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OH this is so good. I have to share it.Thanks so much. A Golden Wedding
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Thanks so much Shirley! Much appreciated 😊
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Loved it, thank goodness I am past all of this…finally! It too quite awhile but I’m done…
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Good to know there’s light at the end of the tunnel…lol!
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Menopause. I have just one question: WHY?!
Going on 16 years now. I think I’ve done my bit! 😦
Clever, clever poem! Love it!
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OMG! That long?? That’s awful! But thanks for your lovely comment 😊 X
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Hahaha! Your list is very complete except did I miss your reference to thinning hair on your head? That’s my latest post menopausal woe. I did give up migraines, though, and PMS which are both blessings. I didn’t have too difficult a time during menopause so hang in there. You will make it through!
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You’re right, I did miss that one! So here it is: Thinning hair is just the worst, Menopause you’re such a curse! 😂
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Love it!
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Why thank you 😘
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This is great! The poem that is. The message not so great! Haha! We females sure did draw the short straw in many ways but I still reckon we age better than men do! The last school reunion I went to was an eye-opener. Rather be a woman! 😉 😂🙌
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I know what you mean. Mind you, a lot of women seem to be competing with the men for the biggest beer belly! Lol!!
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Love it. Great job!
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Thanks Chrissy! 😊
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Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful 👏👏👏
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Thanks Helen! Your comment is much appreciated 😊
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Oh my word, so funny! And I’m glad you’re talking about it. We need to talk it about it more, like when we get our periods. Or all the stupid pregnancy side effects. We women are strong and have to endure so much!
#tweensteensbeyond
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Thanks, I’m glad you enjoyed it 🙂 You’re so right…women have to put up with a shed load of pain and discomfit throughout their lives!
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Oh God I can’t wait! I’m sure this is just around the corner for me. Love the way you’ve made it so funny! Thanks so much for sharing with us at #TweensTeensBeyond
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You might be one of the lucky ladies who just sails through it unscathed. I have friends like that. I hate them. Lol!!
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so looking forward to this period in my life not. #tweenteesnbeyond
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It’s a horrid thought isn’t it…
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Brilliant! Loved it. God we go through a lot as women, don’t we?? #tweensteebsbeyond
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Thanks! Yes we certainly DO go through a lot harrumph!!
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My husband would say being on the receiving end of all those menopausal symptoms is his endurance test! The sound of his nasal hair trimmer brings a smile of smug satisfaction every morning. Ha ha! #TweensTeensBeyond
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All husbands would try that line lol! The nasal hair trimmer and the razor…still no comparison but good to have at least SOMETHING to feel smug about hahaha!
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Oh this is brilliant and so true. I’ve been in the peri stage for 5 years now and symptoms have ramped up this last year, hoping it will be over soon!
I actually hosted a red party last year on International Women’s Day to educate, celebrate and bring some humour to female hormones, with 3 amazing speakers including comedian Jean Kittson who’s written a book about it all, ‘You’re Still Hot to Me’
Here’s a little promo from the night.
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I enjoyed the clip! Let me know if you ever want me to come and perform my poem 😂
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I LOVE this and couldn’t stop laughing! Men-on-pause side effects? LOL
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Thanks so much! I’m glad you liked it, and thanks for following my blog. As you enjoyed this poem you might also like ‘Not By the Hair on My Chinny, Chin Chin’ about menopausal hair, ‘Murder on the Dancefloor’ about going clubbing in midlife and ‘Dear Bladder’ which speaks for itself lol!
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Thanks so much! 😊
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